Here is The Dark Side of the Digital Nomad

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Digital nomadism, distant work, location independence — no matter you need to name it, it’s sizzling proper now. COVID has modified what “the workplace” means and other people all over the world are waking as much as one thing these of us who’ve lengthy labored on-line, particularly within the digital creator area, discovered ages in the past: working from anyplace is fairly rattling superior.

Again in 2007, writer Tim Ferriss wrote a e-book known as The 4-Hour Work Week. It kicked off a mini-revolution from which digital nomadism was born. The idea of limiting your work hours, organising your small business to generate passive earnings (earn cash whilst you sleep!), and distant work was timed completely for the expansion of running a blog, ad-based web sites, and on-line advertising and marketing. (Heck, I began out working AdSense web sites.)

Untold numbers of individuals left dwelling and have become “location unbiased,” making their manner all over the world and settling into digital nomad hubs like Bangkok whereas they labored on making a living on-line.

That was the group I used to be part of (shout-out to the unique Bangkok crew of Mark Weins, Sean Ogle, and Jodi Ettenberg). I bear in mind working from my laptop computer in my condominium in Bangkok, the cafés of Chiang Mai, the hostels of Europe, and the seashores of Bali.


Again then, being a digital nomad was thought of one thing bizarre.

“You do what?” “You earn cash how?” “Is that an actual job?”

To the broader society, the entire thing didn’t actually make sense. The actual fact you would make a residing doing one thing on-line out of your laptop computer was too exterior the norm. An actual job had an workplace you went to day-after-day. Every little thing we had been doing simply appeared like we had been rationalizing our Peter Pan syndrome as we preventedthe actual world.”

It wasn’t till the expansion of Instagram and influencers that folks actually stopped asking me about how I made a residing. Abruptly, it was, “Oh, yeah, you can earn cash and work anyplace.”

I’ve watched digital nomadism change loads since I first began running a blog again in 2008, and I’m glad it’s lastly having its world second.

However lots of people assume it’s all rainbows and unicorns. Whereas there are lots of superior elements of this way of life, I need to throw a dose of actuality in your enthusiasm.

Sure, you possibly can work anyplace. Sure, it’s nice to make your individual schedule. Sure, it’s manner higher than sitting in an workplace all day.

However that freedom comes with a darkish facet most individuals don’t discuss. Sure, it’s a life the place you can also make your individual schedule — however there’s no separation between work and play, and also you’re all the time making an attempt to juggle each, thus usually failing at each. You by no means actually clock out such as you do at an workplace.

Certain, you’re in Paris and need to exit and discover, however the work nonetheless must get executed, so that you would possibly take emails at 10pm and conferences at 7am. With no separation between work time and play time, they each bleed into each other to make you are feeling extra busy since you by no means, ever flip off. It’s a life that may destroy your psychological well being with out the fastidiously sustaining the work/play separation the normal workplace offered. Because of this so many individuals burn out. Since you by no means have correct downtime — and your thoughts wants downtime. The Web will take the whole lot in case you aren’t cautious.

It’s a lesson I discovered the laborious manner.

And also you’ll all the time be searching for good Wi-Fi. In each resort, hostel, or café you go to, you’ll marvel, “How’s the Wi-Fi?” That small seashore city may be paradise, however when the Wi-Fi sucks and you may’t take that necessary Zoom assembly, you’ll really feel something however pleased. Abruptly, working from the seashore gained’t appear so nice.

(Belief me, you don’t need to be spending your time discovering good Wi-Fi. Spend extra money on nicer locations with higher connectivity. In the long run, the value is well worth the elevated productiveness and peace of thoughts.)

However the largest draw back to being a digital nomad? It may be very lonely.

In the event you get a couple of long-termers to speak candidly, they’ll ultimately admit that each one the months and years on the street are literally fairly lonely. Sure, you do meet lots of people: somebody is all the time coming or going, there are expats throughout, and that buddy you met in Medellín is lastly going to be on the similar spot as you might be so that you’re pleased you’ll know no less than one individual.

However digital nomads are, by definition, a transient crowd. Nobody actually places down roots as a result of they’re simply someplace till they determine to maneuver on. They’re on their very own journey. Possibly they keep, perhaps they go. Who is aware of? As such, that usually makes them subconsciously preserve their distance from others, as a result of why get near somebody when that you and everybody else goes to go away in any case?


So, you make buddies, and a few of them would possibly even turn into true life-long buddies. However most are buddies of the second, connections you’ve that may die while you transfer on.

Digital nomads don’t develop the robust social bonds you get while you’re in a single place for a very long time — and when your pals are going to be there for a very long time too. It’s usually why expats primarily hang around with one another. Not solely do fellow expats know what you’re feeling however locals don’t need to put within the time to get to know somebody who they know is leaving. (Sure, there are exceptions to this “rule,” however simply take into consideration how you’d react if somebody you met was like, “I’m solely right here for 2 months!” Would you set as a lot effort as if that individual had stated they lived there?)


However people aren’t meant to be loners. We’re social animals. And, as you grow old and the years put on on, the romance of the nomadic life you noticed on Instagram fades. Timber solely develop once they have roots — and lifetime of a digital nomad isn’t precisely certainly one of stability.

That’s the toughest half about the entire endeavor and why you see so many individuals burn out on the nomadic life and settle in a single location. After some time, you simply get bored with being alone. That hundredth stunning waterfall is simply much less stunning when you don’t have any one to share it with.

So, my recommendation to all the brand new digital nomads on the market: Dwell the life you see on Instagram. Purchase into that hype. Go on the market, roam, have enjoyable! As a result of it is a whole lot of enjoyable. Particularly to start with. I imply, I had wonderful experiences. I can’t advocate it sufficient. It might not be all rainbows and unicorns, however, for some time, it’s principally that.


Nevertheless, the second that glamour fades (and it’ll), cool down. Don’t push your self — that may result in anxiousness in case you do. You may be tempted to maintain going, as a result of everybody on IG is pleased so could also be tempted to assume the issue is you and in case you can simply preserve going it can get higherhowever belief me, they’re lonely too.

Cool down, go dwelling, or simply keep put till you’re prepared.

No matter you do, although, know that it’s not a private failure. It’s merely that the romance of digital nomadism is a faux excellent created by social media.

Folks ultimately crave stability, clear schedules, deep friendships, and romantic companions. So, when these needs hit, gradual your travels down, settle into one place, and create your individual 9-to-5.

That’s the actual fantastic thing about being a digital nomad. You get to take your desk anyplace and create your excellent life. It’s not about roaming the world, it’s about having flexibility and time.

Simply don’t unmoor your self too utterly on the journey. Life is a storm, and in case you simply blow within the wind fairly than discovering a secure harbor, ultimately you’ll crash into the shore.